Strange situation?? Need some MATURE advice please!!?

[GregP]

Im 20. I met a girl about a month ago. We hung out every day for 5 or 6 hours a day and have been eating dinner in our college commons area every day. She comes over until very late at night and texts me literally all day non-stop. She told my friend when we first started hanging out that she was still "sort of" seeing someone else that she went to high school with that was studying abroad for the semester. This other kid came back about a week ago and ever since she has texted less but we have still hung out a few times since then. I told her I liked her and she said she liked me too and "didnt know what to do" but wanted to see me in the summer. (we live about 45 min form each other in the summer.) Weve been home for the summer for about 4 days and the texting has stopped and she has made excuses not to go places w/ me but has gone to the same place with the other guy. Should I just take the hint and let it go and let her come to me if she wants to?

[late_sleeper35]

Let her go. Your her crutch for when the other guy is not around. I mean you could hang around and play second fiddle or you could go get a real relationship. It's your call.

[SalineAssassin]

Don't stop talking to her completely,you should text her occasionally and be friendly, if she doesn't respond after that then yes just let it be and if she wants you she'll know your door is open.