HELP!! I need some MATURE advice please! I am completely confused!?

[GregP2300]

Im 20. I met a girl about 2 and a half weeks ago. We hung out every day for 5 or 6 hours a day and have been eating dinner in our college commons area every day. She comes over until very late at night and texts me literally all day non-stop. She told my friend when we first started hanging out that she was still "sort of" seeing someone else that she went to high school with that was studying abroad for the semester. This other kid came back about a week ago and ever since she has texted less but we have still hung out a few times since then. I told her I liked her and she said she liked me too and "didnt know what to do" but wanted to see me in the summer. (we live about 45 min form each other in the summer.) Weve been home for the summer for about 4 days and the texting has stopped and she has made excuses not to go places w/ me but has gone to the same place with the other guy. Should I just take the hint and let it go and let her come to me if she wants to?

[BOYDH]

Yes, I would back off it is quite plain that she is preferring the other guy and that you are being used when he is not around.

[DEENIE7794]

Let it go. She's confused about what she wants and there's sure to be lots of drama involved. If she wants you, she'll be in touch.

[dianee]

yeah. i hate to say it but i think she has found someone else. dont let it get to you. life goes on..find someone else. if she comes to you in the meantime, thats cool.

[Eliza1433]

I'm guessing that she is spending time with the other guy. It doesn't look like she is ready to go into a realtionship with you.If she is really interested, she should officially break it off with the other guy. There is something wrong going on if she won't spend time with you or text you when he is around. But is the total opposite when he is away.You should move on. Why waste your time with someone who isn't sincere?