How to teach my husband...?

[rae_lee9]

I have a great family, a newborn, a two year old and an 8 year old. My only problem is that, in being a stay at home mom, my husband feels as if he deserves all the glory for working his stressful job every day. I am thankful for him working so hard at his job but I feel as though in making the decision to be prents we took on an even more important full time job. He doesn't feel any need to help me at home in the least bit and I feel as though he doesn't respect me. I need to know what I can do to help him understand because I feel I've taken every approach possible. I want him to respect me and all that I do. I do realize that intimacy is an important part of our relationship, especially pertaining to him, but I have no desire when I feel this unappreciated and disrespected every day. I have tried to "keep him happy" in hopes that he would be more willing to do the same for me but it hasn't worked. He makes more work for me on daily basis and I'm tired of being walked all over,