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Sometimes when you have entered into a relationship with a person and you're expectant of other things or need others things from him, sometimes he doesn't know how to go about doing these things because maybe he didn't have enough postive female role models in his life to show him how to treat a woman or past girlfriends have given him different types of feed back. But you have to be honest, open and able to communicate in a relationship, to state what you need and want from him and what he needs and wants from you. If you are the type that needs lots of affection, then tell him that is what makes you feel special and loved. Or if him doing things like helping you fix something or just being there for you, state you want his support.
I wouldn't advise doing this until you've spent some time in a relationship and you've gotten to see what kind of person he is because just demanding things when you've only been together for a couple of weeks or a month or two might make you seem high maintence, but if you two have spent a good deal of time with each other and you're feeling certain things are missing, then you two can sit down together, express yourself, say what's on your minds and try to find a compromise (like if he isn't affectionate and you need that to feel loved, he can try harder to be that way for you, but you can always try harder to appreciate the ways he does show you that he cares). If both people can communicate what's on their minds, things about the relationship or otherwise, you'll be able to come up with solutions before the situation even become a real problem and therefore stop any kind of arguments that you would have over the issue.
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03-02-2008, 12:16 AM
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