I'm heartbroken right now. I just had a big argument with my boyfriend

[ConfusedHMD]

about us.He's been acting a bit weird lately and he finally said that it's because it's getting to him that my parents don't like him and also that he wants to move to Florida and I won't. My parents don't accept him and he feels like how far can this relationship go if they don't accept him.I told him I don't really care because it's my life and would be our life if we were to get married not anyone else's. He wants to move to Florida to be near his daughter and I get that,but I'd be giving up my entire life-my career, my apartment that I bought, my family that all lives here. I don't know what to do, I feel like he doesn't love me and would be willing to leave me for a freaking state! He says he loves me but that he hates NY, which doesn't make sense to me because he left FL to come live in NY years ago (way before me) and he grew up here in NY so he knew exactly how it was. He says he hates the cold in NY, and well, I hate the heat so I don't think I would even life FL. I'm just so heartbroken right now. Advice please.
His daughter is 9 years old.

[PEGGY S]

His daughter means more to him than you will. Our children always come first. If you love him, you will have to accept that, and move with him. Besides, if you parents are giving him a hard time, whay would he want to hang around and put up with it? How would you feel if your child lived so far away that you rarely could see him/she? How would you feel if your gf's parents make it very clear that they did not like you? Try to see things from his point of view.

[scytherbug@sbcglobal.net]

if your truly in love with each other a state won't break you two a part.......it wont matter who likes the heat or who dosn't like the cold

[Dennis M]

It Sound Like Your Parent Are Going To Have A New Room Mate You ...if The Dont Except The Ones You Love And You Dont Have Your Apartment....lust Tell Them You Are Moving Home For Good....and After A Little While They Will Except Him Just To Get You To Leave...hope I Helped...

[James Q]

Sounds like you want to say "so long to him" You just need permission.

I didn't move the 1200 miles to be near my son when I was young, my wife didn't want to and I would have to move to the rain and cold out of warm southern Nevada... etc.. I regret it every day, and I ended up leaving my wife because she was pretty selfish, as was evident by her not letting me move to be near my son. (I am not saying you are selfish, you are not married) If you choose to marry him and then refused to go to be close to his son it would be different.
I suggest he goes to Florida and forgets about you. And you go on with your life in NY. If you had something special it wouldn't even be a question for you. It is best to listen to your self now and do what you think than to commit and later try and fix it.

[*geli*]

well i think that if your parents don't like him that's their problem his gonna marry you not them and if you really love him you should go with him to Florida why would you be heartbroken if hes Ur boyfriend and have plans on getting married its because you really love him follow him don't let him go