qhy does every1 act like bc I'm pregnant I have to marry my boyfriend who

[Soon2bMommy]

is the father? we've been together for 3 years almost. we wanted to get married at some point, but neither one of us feels rushed. every1 I know says "are you guys ever going to get married?" but before the pregnancy no1 asked. it didnt matter then now I'm pregnant 29 weeks and 5 days so it does matter? we plan to get married eventually but we dont want to rush and get married before the baby comes, my choice. I dont mind them asking, i know most the people that ask are people that care like my brother, close friends, etc. But I am just wondering why is it such a big deal to people that were not married? it is 2008. I just am surprised at how surprised other people are.
sorry for qhy typo i meant "why" lol
and we probably will end up getting married in August bc my benefits get cut off then, but is that a good reason for me to get married? bc I need benefits? I do love my boyfriend but things have been distant. I want 2 get married for the right reasons, not out of necessity but I do need benefits lol luckily my baby is due in early July.