can life get any sadder?

[Sarah0119]

Put yourself out there, as a friend or you can just keep wondering. Try to talk to him before he leaves. Introduce yourself. If you do not get a chance before he leaves, e-mail him on myspace, request to be his friend. Initiate questions to get him to talk. If you get along, he will open up about his life. Do not hit on him initially. Get to know him.

[webhead28]

What is it about him that intimidates you so much? You already kinda sorta know him, so why not just casually ask him out? I think you're making a mistake to just let it go. To quote Diana Ross: "You have to go after what you want in life because unless you're really, really lucky, no one is going to put it on a platter and give it to you." Its better to ask him and find out one way or the other. Otherwise, you'll regret that you stood by and did nothing.So what if he looks good and is into musical theater? So are men like Andrew Lloyd Webber and Mikhail Baryshnikov. Point is, just because some guys like nice clothes and the classical arts doesn't mean they're gay. The fact that his Myspace page says he's straight doesn't mean that he really is either. Going out on a casual date isn't going to hurt either of you. And even if he IS gay, the date might still be fun. If he says no, then at least you'll know for sure that he's not interested----and although that won't make you feel great, it will still make you feel a lot better than thinking that you blew your last chance to hook up with him Stop thinking about it and just do it.