can life get any sadder?

LilyM · #1 (**permalink**) 05-11-2008, 03:34 AM

i'm ending my junior year in two weeks. i've had a crush on this guy for almost all of high school and he's graduating in eleven days. we're sort of friends, but not really close. everyone thinks that he's gay because he dresses really well and is very into musical theater and stuff. his myspace says that he's straight but i've never asked him b/c i don't know him well enough. anyways i'm never going to tell him or anything because i know that he doesn't feel the same way and to be honest i really just don't have the courage. i'm just so sad! what will make me feel better? is there any advice that someone can give for this strange situation? :-(

thewife · #2 (**permalink**) 05-11-2008, 03:52 AM

send him a little hello message to his myspace........keep it neutral and friendly, this gives him the choice as to whether or not to reply.

Arbys · #3 (**permalink**) 05-11-2008, 04:10 AM

the only thing that will make you feel better is to tell him how you feel about him. trust me, i have been there many times before. i would much rather have a girl turn me down than for me to always wonder "what if i just told her i like her."

Stewie7216 · #4 (**permalink**) 05-11-2008, 04:28 AM

Tell him how you feel before its to late. At least he will know how you feel and you wont have to go through life wondering what might have been if you would have just stepped up.

SassyFrassy5759 · #5 (**permalink**) 05-11-2008, 04:46 AM

tell him before its too late

acey_1988 · #6 (**permalink**) 05-11-2008, 05:03 AM

He most probz aint gay maybe just well brought up to look his best!Get his msn or yahoo messenger to get to know him better

yonnoyonnoyonno · #7 (**permalink**) 05-11-2008, 05:21 AM

really all i can say write him a letter that works all the time

BellaSwan · #8 (**permalink**) 05-11-2008, 05:39 AM

Oh Men. They never DO know what they want. I really think that you should talk to him.

Red101 · #9 (**permalink**) 05-11-2008, 05:57 AM

You should try talking to him...see if he is or not. He could be interested in you...go for it, if he's not then he only has 11 days left and u wont be seeing him again..

ethant · #10 (**permalink**) 05-11-2008, 06:15 AM

just go straight up to him and tell him how you feel you will be glad you did it mgiht be a little embarrasing but wouldnt you rather be embarrased than not know how he felt cause he may feel the same way for you

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