i got a cold and my boyfriend acted too busy so i broke up?

[kelly56danceorg]

ok, i've been dating a guy, who I like, we get along ok, he's sweet, we've been talking like adults, we're both busy, i saw him on friday for lunch, we ate fruit, and we had to get back to work, that night my cold got really bad, and he was too busy to talk to me or help me, by saturday i was mad, and all the issues came out, i texted him, and he called once from work, but i wouldnt answer him. I feel he's too busy, and has been squeezing in time almost everyday, except holidays, well it was july 4th and he disappears with his friends and family on the weekends, and chats at work. i basically said i'm turning my phone off, we should break up, and for him to call me next month. He didn't call me to talk in person. I just am so annoyed that guys are into kissing and are nice, but when you really need them, like to bring me tissues, or tea, or call, thay are too into their own life. Am i being too picky? What can i do, be disappointed? I'm just gonna be single for a month, not date.
There's other issues. He still lives with his exgirlfriend and her daughter, and i don't see him at his house...that drives me crazy, so we havn't been close, or been intimate. We have fun, but maybe I have high expectations. I expect a man in a relationship to be reliable, and he's been late, and always on his cell phone, and i want security. we mentioned being roommates. i'm super independent. i have my own everything. the point is why date a man if he isn't going to be committed. i deserve to be taken care of. why should i be the fun girl on the side while he pays all her bills and she doesn't work for a decade! I'm gonna stick to my instincts. He's very polite, and kind, but so what, I want a man who will be MINE. I don't do well with sharing. I want to be a priority.